I figure I better post as it been a while but with recent events. ( won't get into much details) but for those that remember 4thesnakelady and i met on here. and got married about 11 years ago. June 4thtis year we agreed to a trail separation and with in 2 weeks she decided she wanted a divorce and i have since left Delaware due to memories and the heart break. She had her friends and family to support her and I was forced to go where I didn't want to be, and after I was told to get my pets and personal things, and the place i was staying cats went after the gliders I made a tough decision to leave entirely from Delaware. I was only planning on bringing my pets to a safe place then fall off the planet. My friends here and on the way here kept me going and in the last 2 months I not as depressed but I do miss Her so much it hurts to think about her still I don't know how some people can move on so easy. WE each kept 2 snakes and I got 6 of our 9 gliders. I have not even been able to ask her how the pets are doing or her as she totally ghosted me.
I can understand because I in the first 45 days I left other opinions color my messages to her and I was back and forth between calling a narcissist and crying to come back to her. I love this woman with all my heart and had built my life around her almost totally.
I figuer to let those that might remember us and the BP net party we held years ago should be informed.
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